Our society plunges us into places that have mostly good intentions but are one-size-fits-all. We are simultaneously encouraged to stand out yet fit in, be an individual but behave accordingly, create great change and creativity but stay within the parameters of everyday approval.
I’m the only one I have. I was born as myself and I will take only myself to the grave. I can try to escape, suppress, and re-train myself all I want to make me more of who I think I should be, while pain, fear and neuroses quietly breeds.
Or I can stop and look at who I really am and decide to study myself for a change.
I’d always wished there were a comprehensive course in highschool that taught me how to deal with life and it’s parables, rollercoasters, and contradictions. I wished for someone wise and otherworldy to come and explain how to live life to the fullest and overcome my fears and become the person I secretly knew I was inside.
Why isn’t there something that teaches us how to understand ourselves, the very people we are dealing with our entire lives? There’s courses on business management, employee management…but no Self101.
I know I am not alone. Everyday I see so many people on their own missions and I really want to support and be able to help those who are seeking like I am.
This is for those on the fringe with the big questions. For those who feel torn between self expression and societal “shoulds”. The kind and curious rebels and the happiness-seeking misfits. Those who have been searching for something to guide them that doesn’t pigeonhole them.
Those people are the most interesting to me — the ones who are curious and willing to figure themselves and their lives out no matter what it takes to become their fullest and best version of themselves.
I make mistakes but I embrace who I am now, as well as the stronger person I know I am to become. And I want to share what I’ve learned and what I’ve been practicing and learning every single day.
This is one of my biggest passions and major study and practices, which is why I liken my pursuit to that of a monk.
Good monks spread love and compassion, pass on lessons learned, and share words of wisdom. They know they aren’t better than anyone else and strive to live a life of happiness, humbleness, and honor. Being a life monk is hard work, but it’s been a lot of fun thus far.